DAY 30- Proverbs 1
Proverbs 1 contains the wise sayings of Solomon who was David's son and the king of Israel. These admonitions and words of advice are given to us so we'll know how to live right, and to understand what life means and where it's going. It's like an operating manual for life. It teaches what is right, just, and fair. It has something for everyone- the inexperienced, young people, even seasoned men and women.
The whole process starts with learning to bow down to God. Only a fool would turn his back on such an opportunity at wisdom and learning, yet I've been a fool for years. I have passed up thousands of chances to sit at God's feet and learn His ways, gaining wisdom. I can't even imagine how different my life would be had I taken advantage of all those years, all those days I could have spent time learning God's wisdom by having a simple, daily quiet time.
Understanding how to live well, how to have a meaningful life begins with wisdom. Anyone who desires it can have it, and it only takes self-discipline to acquire it. No special skills are required and God gives on-the-job training. The only thing that will stop or delay us from reaching our goal is if we stop pursuing it.
Tuesday, April 1, 2008
Monday, March 31, 2008
Put Her on a Pedastal
DAY 29- Proverbs 31
A good woman is hard to find. Proverbs 31: 10-31 describes the attributes of a good, virtuous wife. It paints a beautiful portrait of an amazing wife. Any man who marries a woman like the one described in this Proverb is indeed blessed beyond measure.
The passage concludes by telling husbands how we should cherish her. "Charm can mislead and beauty soon fades. The woman to be admired and praised is the woman who lives in the fear of God. Give her everything she deserves! Festoon her life with praises!" -v30-31 (The Message)
This passage has two messages for two different readers. Wives can read this scripture and compare themselves to the example given. It is up to them to determine how they measure up and scrutinize areas of themselvess they may wish to change. Husbands should not read this passage and begin to scrutinize their wives and think of all the changes they wish to make in her! As a husband, I need to only work on myself. If I find myself unhappy with something my wife is doing/not doing, I first need to see how I might change to bring about a different behaviour in her. Chances are pretty good that it's my fault and she's reacting to my behaviour. (Sorry, I could give many examples here to prove my point, but I tend to embarrass myself enough already.)
I think, as husbands, we tend to 'settle into' our marriages and over time forget the sense of awe and wonder we had for our wives early in our relationships. I still remember the anticipation, the butterflies in my stomach (you might call it 'giddiness') I would feel when I was on my way to see my girlfriend (who is now my wife). We both enjoyed finding special little ways to show each other how much we loved one another. I can't remember the last time I wrote her a silly little note and left it in her car or on her desk at work, just to brighten her day and tell her I was thinking of her. Instead, we find ourselve IMing, "What's for dinner?" "Do we have a school meeting tonight?"
There was a time when I would have done almost anything for her without hesitation. However, time erodes our passions and we settle into the routines of life. It's not that I love my wife any less; in fact, I believe I love her more than ever. But pressures, jobs, bills, and fatigue have shifted my focus away from how magnificent she is, and what a precious gift God gave me. I pray the Lord will remind me daily so that I might shower her with love and praises, and give her everything she deserves.
A good woman is hard to find. Proverbs 31: 10-31 describes the attributes of a good, virtuous wife. It paints a beautiful portrait of an amazing wife. Any man who marries a woman like the one described in this Proverb is indeed blessed beyond measure.
The passage concludes by telling husbands how we should cherish her. "Charm can mislead and beauty soon fades. The woman to be admired and praised is the woman who lives in the fear of God. Give her everything she deserves! Festoon her life with praises!" -v30-31 (The Message)
This passage has two messages for two different readers. Wives can read this scripture and compare themselves to the example given. It is up to them to determine how they measure up and scrutinize areas of themselvess they may wish to change. Husbands should not read this passage and begin to scrutinize their wives and think of all the changes they wish to make in her! As a husband, I need to only work on myself. If I find myself unhappy with something my wife is doing/not doing, I first need to see how I might change to bring about a different behaviour in her. Chances are pretty good that it's my fault and she's reacting to my behaviour. (Sorry, I could give many examples here to prove my point, but I tend to embarrass myself enough already.)
I think, as husbands, we tend to 'settle into' our marriages and over time forget the sense of awe and wonder we had for our wives early in our relationships. I still remember the anticipation, the butterflies in my stomach (you might call it 'giddiness') I would feel when I was on my way to see my girlfriend (who is now my wife). We both enjoyed finding special little ways to show each other how much we loved one another. I can't remember the last time I wrote her a silly little note and left it in her car or on her desk at work, just to brighten her day and tell her I was thinking of her. Instead, we find ourselve IMing, "What's for dinner?" "Do we have a school meeting tonight?"
There was a time when I would have done almost anything for her without hesitation. However, time erodes our passions and we settle into the routines of life. It's not that I love my wife any less; in fact, I believe I love her more than ever. But pressures, jobs, bills, and fatigue have shifted my focus away from how magnificent she is, and what a precious gift God gave me. I pray the Lord will remind me daily so that I might shower her with love and praises, and give her everything she deserves.
Sunday, March 30, 2008
Count On It!
DAY 28- Proverbs 30
"Every word of God is flawless; He is a shield to those who take refuge in Him." -v5
Every promise that God made to us is true. His Word is perfect and flawless. It's not enough just to believe that fact- we need to count on it. I rely on His promises just to make it through each day!
A friend of mine recently reminded me of one of God's promises that, quite honestly, had slipped my mind. On this particular day I really needed to claim that promise. I was struggling against feelings of despair and frustration. You see, for a long time I had been praying for God to do a mighty work in my life and in my circumstances. I felt God was absolutely going to bless me by changing those circumstances, but was beginning to wonder if He had changed His mind or forgotten about His promise. It didn't appear to me that He was working on the situation at all!
This particular day I really needed to be reminded of this promise, "He who began a good work in you will be faithful to complete it." That's a very powerful promise! God was working on my situation right then and promised to complete that work! All I need to do is remain faithful and claim promises. He will complete the work He's begun in me. His word is flawless and I can count on that!
"Every word of God is flawless; He is a shield to those who take refuge in Him." -v5
Every promise that God made to us is true. His Word is perfect and flawless. It's not enough just to believe that fact- we need to count on it. I rely on His promises just to make it through each day!
A friend of mine recently reminded me of one of God's promises that, quite honestly, had slipped my mind. On this particular day I really needed to claim that promise. I was struggling against feelings of despair and frustration. You see, for a long time I had been praying for God to do a mighty work in my life and in my circumstances. I felt God was absolutely going to bless me by changing those circumstances, but was beginning to wonder if He had changed His mind or forgotten about His promise. It didn't appear to me that He was working on the situation at all!
This particular day I really needed to be reminded of this promise, "He who began a good work in you will be faithful to complete it." That's a very powerful promise! God was working on my situation right then and promised to complete that work! All I need to do is remain faithful and claim promises. He will complete the work He's begun in me. His word is flawless and I can count on that!
Saturday, March 29, 2008
Witty Banter
DAY 27- Proverbs 29
"Do you see the man who speaks in haste? There is more hope for a fool than for him." -v20 NIV The Message translation says it this way, "Observe the people who always talk before they think - even simpletons are better off than they are."
Sometimes I speak quicker than I should. Yes, I do talk at a rapid pace, but I'm referring to how quickly I respond to others. I don't always take enough time to consider what I have just heard, but begin to reply sometimes before the other person has even finished speaking.
Witty banter is my favorite sytle of writing in television shows and movies. The West Wing was a perfect example of this quick come-back or snappy repartee that I love so much. I think I often approach conversation that way. If I'm so focused on what I'm to say next, I can't be doing a very good job of listening. And I'm certainly not pausing long enough to hear what the other person is truly expressing before I reply to it. That probably doesn't give the Holy Spirit much opportunity to guide my words.
This is not going to be something I can change very easily about myself. I've been this way for a long time. I wonder how many people I could have been a better friend to if I had not spoken in haste, but had listened more intently. I don't even want to know how many times I've hurt someone, created a problem, or simply looked like a fool because I spoke in haste.
I don't want to be this way any longer. It's selfish, has no value or significance, and only seems to stroke my ego. "Lord, forgive me. Help me change the way I listen to others, to pause and think about my words before I talk, and to allow You to speak through me."
"Do you see the man who speaks in haste? There is more hope for a fool than for him." -v20 NIV The Message translation says it this way, "Observe the people who always talk before they think - even simpletons are better off than they are."
Sometimes I speak quicker than I should. Yes, I do talk at a rapid pace, but I'm referring to how quickly I respond to others. I don't always take enough time to consider what I have just heard, but begin to reply sometimes before the other person has even finished speaking.
Witty banter is my favorite sytle of writing in television shows and movies. The West Wing was a perfect example of this quick come-back or snappy repartee that I love so much. I think I often approach conversation that way. If I'm so focused on what I'm to say next, I can't be doing a very good job of listening. And I'm certainly not pausing long enough to hear what the other person is truly expressing before I reply to it. That probably doesn't give the Holy Spirit much opportunity to guide my words.
This is not going to be something I can change very easily about myself. I've been this way for a long time. I wonder how many people I could have been a better friend to if I had not spoken in haste, but had listened more intently. I don't even want to know how many times I've hurt someone, created a problem, or simply looked like a fool because I spoke in haste.
I don't want to be this way any longer. It's selfish, has no value or significance, and only seems to stroke my ego. "Lord, forgive me. Help me change the way I listen to others, to pause and think about my words before I talk, and to allow You to speak through me."
Friday, March 28, 2008
Listening to God's Law
DAY 26- Proverbs 28
Today I feel kind of numb. It's been a very long week. My family has been on Spring Break but I've had to work... and it's been a stressful work week at that! My mind and body are tired and need rejuvenating. The finish line to my 30 day challenge is only a few days away, so I believe the strain I'm feeling could be the result of 'the enemy' attacking me. I'm going to make it to the end, even if I have to crawl across the finish line!
"If anyone turns a deaf ear to the law, even his prayers are detestable." Proverbs 28:9 I like the way The Message translates it- "God has no use for the prayers of people who won't listen to Him."
We recently joined a couples bible study and are discussing the significance of prayer. This verse made me wonder how often in my life God has looked at my lack of devotion to Him, when I've turned my back on Him (either deliberately or through indifference) and then determined He had no use for my prayers. It makes me sad to realize that my prayers may have been 'detestable' to God during those times when I was ignoring His teachings, His law.
I am trying very hard now to listen to Him. I want to grow wiser and more obedient, to serve and please the Lord, and to find favor in His eyes. I want my prayers to be worthy of His attention.
Today I feel kind of numb. It's been a very long week. My family has been on Spring Break but I've had to work... and it's been a stressful work week at that! My mind and body are tired and need rejuvenating. The finish line to my 30 day challenge is only a few days away, so I believe the strain I'm feeling could be the result of 'the enemy' attacking me. I'm going to make it to the end, even if I have to crawl across the finish line!
"If anyone turns a deaf ear to the law, even his prayers are detestable." Proverbs 28:9 I like the way The Message translates it- "God has no use for the prayers of people who won't listen to Him."
We recently joined a couples bible study and are discussing the significance of prayer. This verse made me wonder how often in my life God has looked at my lack of devotion to Him, when I've turned my back on Him (either deliberately or through indifference) and then determined He had no use for my prayers. It makes me sad to realize that my prayers may have been 'detestable' to God during those times when I was ignoring His teachings, His law.
I am trying very hard now to listen to Him. I want to grow wiser and more obedient, to serve and please the Lord, and to find favor in His eyes. I want my prayers to be worthy of His attention.
Thursday, March 27, 2008
My Reflection
DAY 25- Proverbs 27
"As water reflects a face, so a man's heart reflects the man." Proverbs 27:19
Each day I find myself looking more and more carefully at the man I've become (or haven't become) these past 40+ years. I'm not certain whether it is God nudging me to look inside myself or just regret as I've grown older, but now I'm starting to question many of the choices I've made. I am definitely looking more closely at my heart: my motives, my faults, my desires/dreams, my failures, and my character. These are the things that reflect who I am as a child of God and so far I'm not very happy with my reflection.
Through this 30 day challenge I've been praying for more wisdom. Why the heck didn't I start doing that when I was younger?! I want God to change me, and maybe that is what He's doing. By showing me my reflection, He's revealing to me my character and helping me see myself through His eyes. I'm discovering that I have a lot of shortcomings- more than I have room to list here.
I'm regretting the years I've wasted. How much more useful to God could I have been if I had sought Him sooner and more fervently? How much better of a husband, father, son, friend, co-worker, and neighbor could I have become if I had let God show me my reflection sooner?
Good grief! Once again, I find myself relying on God's forgiveness and thankful for His unconditional love and grace.
"As water reflects a face, so a man's heart reflects the man." Proverbs 27:19
Each day I find myself looking more and more carefully at the man I've become (or haven't become) these past 40+ years. I'm not certain whether it is God nudging me to look inside myself or just regret as I've grown older, but now I'm starting to question many of the choices I've made. I am definitely looking more closely at my heart: my motives, my faults, my desires/dreams, my failures, and my character. These are the things that reflect who I am as a child of God and so far I'm not very happy with my reflection.
Through this 30 day challenge I've been praying for more wisdom. Why the heck didn't I start doing that when I was younger?! I want God to change me, and maybe that is what He's doing. By showing me my reflection, He's revealing to me my character and helping me see myself through His eyes. I'm discovering that I have a lot of shortcomings- more than I have room to list here.
I'm regretting the years I've wasted. How much more useful to God could I have been if I had sought Him sooner and more fervently? How much better of a husband, father, son, friend, co-worker, and neighbor could I have become if I had let God show me my reflection sooner?
Good grief! Once again, I find myself relying on God's forgiveness and thankful for His unconditional love and grace.
Wednesday, March 26, 2008
Fools & Quarrels
DAY 24- Proverbs 26
Today's passage in Proverbs was a collection of advice mostly devoted to dealing with fools and avoiding quarrels. A few verses I thought were little 'pearls of wisdom' were as follows (from The Message translation):
"Don't respond to the stupidity of a fool; you'll only look foolish yourself." -v4 "Putting a fool in a place of honor is like setting a mud brick on a marble column." -v8
"You grab a mad dog by the ears when you butt into a quarrel that's none of your business." -v17 "A quarrelsome person in a dispute is like kerosene thrown on a fire." -v21 "When you run out of wood, the fire goes out; when the gossip ends, the quarrel dies down." -v20
I think it's important for me to remember the message of these verses. I don't want to become a fool in the eyes of God or in the world's eyes either. I don't want to be the kind of person who is completely caught up in my own desires, laziness, or selfishness. I want to be self-sacrificing, eager to serve, and passionate in my pursuit of God's will for my life.
There are many times I've become quarrelsome (let's not even talk about my brother and I when we were kids). When I'm further away from God, when I'm not praying or reading His Word consistently, I find I am more discontent and irritable. I find myself bickering or looking for a fight, or gossiping. Why? Does that make me feel better? No, but I guess that if I make someone else feel worse, then I'll feel better. Pathetic way of thinking, isn't it? "Forgive me, Lord, for the times I've acted like a fool or strayed from your side and acted with anger."
Today's passage in Proverbs was a collection of advice mostly devoted to dealing with fools and avoiding quarrels. A few verses I thought were little 'pearls of wisdom' were as follows (from The Message translation):
"Don't respond to the stupidity of a fool; you'll only look foolish yourself." -v4 "Putting a fool in a place of honor is like setting a mud brick on a marble column." -v8
"You grab a mad dog by the ears when you butt into a quarrel that's none of your business." -v17 "A quarrelsome person in a dispute is like kerosene thrown on a fire." -v21 "When you run out of wood, the fire goes out; when the gossip ends, the quarrel dies down." -v20
I think it's important for me to remember the message of these verses. I don't want to become a fool in the eyes of God or in the world's eyes either. I don't want to be the kind of person who is completely caught up in my own desires, laziness, or selfishness. I want to be self-sacrificing, eager to serve, and passionate in my pursuit of God's will for my life.
There are many times I've become quarrelsome (let's not even talk about my brother and I when we were kids). When I'm further away from God, when I'm not praying or reading His Word consistently, I find I am more discontent and irritable. I find myself bickering or looking for a fight, or gossiping. Why? Does that make me feel better? No, but I guess that if I make someone else feel worse, then I'll feel better. Pathetic way of thinking, isn't it? "Forgive me, Lord, for the times I've acted like a fool or strayed from your side and acted with anger."
Tuesday, March 25, 2008
Take Your Enemies to Arby's
DAY 23- Proverbs 25
In today's chapter, verses 21-22 say, "If your enemy is hungry, give him food to eat; if he is thirsty, give him water to drink. In doing this you will heap burning coals on his head, and the Lord will reward you."
This command is completely counter-culture to my own human nature. I don't want to hate anyone, and I am also capable of being cordial to those who have wronged me. But it would take a lot of willpower to go purchase a meal for my enemy. Yet the Bible says that my generosity "will surprise him with goodness, and God will look after me." (The Message)
I think there are two lessons in this passage for me. First, if I find myself in such a situation, by being generous to my enemy, God might use the opportunity to bring him closer to a personal relationship with the Lord. While softening his heart, God might be softening mine as well.
Secondly, I found myself wondering, "What if the roles were reversed and in someone else's eyes I was the enemy?!" I don't know how many people I have wronged, but I can imagine there might be some people out there who consider me an enemy. If ever I am in need and the Lord allows one of them to be the provider of my need, I know how their kindness would make me feel. It's also not hard to imagine how it would feel if he/she refused to help me in my time of need.
In today's chapter, verses 21-22 say, "If your enemy is hungry, give him food to eat; if he is thirsty, give him water to drink. In doing this you will heap burning coals on his head, and the Lord will reward you."
This command is completely counter-culture to my own human nature. I don't want to hate anyone, and I am also capable of being cordial to those who have wronged me. But it would take a lot of willpower to go purchase a meal for my enemy. Yet the Bible says that my generosity "will surprise him with goodness, and God will look after me." (The Message)
I think there are two lessons in this passage for me. First, if I find myself in such a situation, by being generous to my enemy, God might use the opportunity to bring him closer to a personal relationship with the Lord. While softening his heart, God might be softening mine as well.
Secondly, I found myself wondering, "What if the roles were reversed and in someone else's eyes I was the enemy?!" I don't know how many people I have wronged, but I can imagine there might be some people out there who consider me an enemy. If ever I am in need and the Lord allows one of them to be the provider of my need, I know how their kindness would make me feel. It's also not hard to imagine how it would feel if he/she refused to help me in my time of need.
Monday, March 24, 2008
Eat Honey
DAY 22- Proverbs 24
"Eat honey, my son, for it is good; honey from the comb is sweet to your taste. Know also that wisdom is sweet to your soul; if you find it, there is a future hope for you, and your hope will not be cut off." Proverbs 24: 13-14
We all enjoy eating a delicacy that melts in your mouth. When I close my eyes and picture my favorite piece of Sees candy (a milk chocolate Bordeaux), my mouth almost waters as I think aobut its smooth, sweet flavor and the lingering taste it leaves in my mouth. I think these verses are advising us to seek wisdom for the pleasure and the lingering taste it will bring. We rarely hesitate to satisfy our taste buds with sweet treats, but how often do we feed our souls a treat- with wisdom?
Our desire to learn, gain understanding and wisdom should grow as we grow. It is one diet that won't increase our waistline as we indulge. It will instead increase our hope. It is OK to crave widsom and to feed that craving continuously. Go ahead and indulge in wisdom. Gather as much of it as possible and savor it. Bon apetite!
"Eat honey, my son, for it is good; honey from the comb is sweet to your taste. Know also that wisdom is sweet to your soul; if you find it, there is a future hope for you, and your hope will not be cut off." Proverbs 24: 13-14
We all enjoy eating a delicacy that melts in your mouth. When I close my eyes and picture my favorite piece of Sees candy (a milk chocolate Bordeaux), my mouth almost waters as I think aobut its smooth, sweet flavor and the lingering taste it leaves in my mouth. I think these verses are advising us to seek wisdom for the pleasure and the lingering taste it will bring. We rarely hesitate to satisfy our taste buds with sweet treats, but how often do we feed our souls a treat- with wisdom?
Our desire to learn, gain understanding and wisdom should grow as we grow. It is one diet that won't increase our waistline as we indulge. It will instead increase our hope. It is OK to crave widsom and to feed that craving continuously. Go ahead and indulge in wisdom. Gather as much of it as possible and savor it. Bon apetite!
Sunday, March 23, 2008
Burnt Waffles
DAY 21- Proverbs 23
We purchased an electric waffle maker the other day. (Are you already sensing the spiritual connotation here?) It had been many years since I had used one but I wanted to make waffles for my kids. They love those fake Eggo-things, but I thought they should enjoy 'real' waffles. So I found the instruction manual in the box and , like a guy, read almost every word.
In my haste to get to the fun part (eating), I must have skimmed over a crucial word or two because I missed the part about spraying the non-stick griddles with cooking oil. Why bother making them out of Teflon if you still need to use cooking spray?! The first waffle was a disaster, but I learned from my mistake and we ended up with a great breakfast.
As it turns out, the instruction manual was a little more important than I had give it credit for. Proverbs 23:12 says, "Apply your heart to instruction and your ears to words of knowledge." I believe this verse is telling me to study God's word and apply His instruction to my life. He has given us the perfect instruction manual (the Bible), yet as I look back over my life, realize I have spent very few hours studying it. God speaks to me through His written word and uses it to teach me. If I'm going to gain wisdom and understanding, I need to study the Bible much more than I have in the past. I'm also going to try to not skim over any parts, but to read every word carefully. I don't want my life to turn out to be a burnt waffle.
We purchased an electric waffle maker the other day. (Are you already sensing the spiritual connotation here?) It had been many years since I had used one but I wanted to make waffles for my kids. They love those fake Eggo-things, but I thought they should enjoy 'real' waffles. So I found the instruction manual in the box and , like a guy, read almost every word.
In my haste to get to the fun part (eating), I must have skimmed over a crucial word or two because I missed the part about spraying the non-stick griddles with cooking oil. Why bother making them out of Teflon if you still need to use cooking spray?! The first waffle was a disaster, but I learned from my mistake and we ended up with a great breakfast.
As it turns out, the instruction manual was a little more important than I had give it credit for. Proverbs 23:12 says, "Apply your heart to instruction and your ears to words of knowledge." I believe this verse is telling me to study God's word and apply His instruction to my life. He has given us the perfect instruction manual (the Bible), yet as I look back over my life, realize I have spent very few hours studying it. God speaks to me through His written word and uses it to teach me. If I'm going to gain wisdom and understanding, I need to study the Bible much more than I have in the past. I'm also going to try to not skim over any parts, but to read every word carefully. I don't want my life to turn out to be a burnt waffle.
Saturday, March 22, 2008
A Serious Character Flaw
DAY 20- Proverbs 22
Two-thirds of the way to my goal... Whoo-Hoo! But by the grace of God have I followed this through. Now, I not only want to see the finish line of my 30 day challenge, but I truly want to keep going. I can't believe how much the Lord is teaching me and transforming me through this daily devotion time. When the challenge is over I'll try to verbalize what He's done in my life.
Today's passage contained a verse that initially made me feel a twinge of guilt and pain. But as I began to think about how it applies to my life and write about it, the twinge turned to stabbing pain. Let me begin by saying that I am SO flawed, that the only reason I am still allowed to keep breathing is God's forgiveness.
Verse 2 says, "Rich and poor have this in common: the Lord is the Maker of them all." Why did this convict me so much this morning? As I began to think about it and write it in my journal, I began to realize that I have become very judgemental. For some reason I sometimes find myself 'sizing up' people or judging them based on shallow observation. It's usually people I don't even know- people in the store or on the street. I find myself looking for their flaws because somehow that makes me feel better about myself. I guess this is based in some deep insecurity, but that doesn't excuse it. The people who deserve the greatest compassion from me, yet are sometimes the ones I most easily scrutinize, are people who are obviously poorer than me. I tend to question what has caused their predicament and mentally conclude that it must be poor choices or drugs/alcohol/gambling, etc. Or I assume they don't seek God, so he isn't helping them.
As I strive to become a more Christ-like man, I am deeply saddened to realize how I have eroded into this thought process without realizing I do it! This verse reminded me that God created every person, and made them exactly as He intended. No mistakes. No one is better than anyone else in God's eyes, and certainly shouldn't be in my eyes either. He loves each of us the same.
"Forgive me, Lord, for when I have acted superior and judged those you have lovingly created. Help me to see the beauty and wonder in others and to love them the way You do."
Two-thirds of the way to my goal... Whoo-Hoo! But by the grace of God have I followed this through. Now, I not only want to see the finish line of my 30 day challenge, but I truly want to keep going. I can't believe how much the Lord is teaching me and transforming me through this daily devotion time. When the challenge is over I'll try to verbalize what He's done in my life.
Today's passage contained a verse that initially made me feel a twinge of guilt and pain. But as I began to think about how it applies to my life and write about it, the twinge turned to stabbing pain. Let me begin by saying that I am SO flawed, that the only reason I am still allowed to keep breathing is God's forgiveness.
Verse 2 says, "Rich and poor have this in common: the Lord is the Maker of them all." Why did this convict me so much this morning? As I began to think about it and write it in my journal, I began to realize that I have become very judgemental. For some reason I sometimes find myself 'sizing up' people or judging them based on shallow observation. It's usually people I don't even know- people in the store or on the street. I find myself looking for their flaws because somehow that makes me feel better about myself. I guess this is based in some deep insecurity, but that doesn't excuse it. The people who deserve the greatest compassion from me, yet are sometimes the ones I most easily scrutinize, are people who are obviously poorer than me. I tend to question what has caused their predicament and mentally conclude that it must be poor choices or drugs/alcohol/gambling, etc. Or I assume they don't seek God, so he isn't helping them.
As I strive to become a more Christ-like man, I am deeply saddened to realize how I have eroded into this thought process without realizing I do it! This verse reminded me that God created every person, and made them exactly as He intended. No mistakes. No one is better than anyone else in God's eyes, and certainly shouldn't be in my eyes either. He loves each of us the same.
"Forgive me, Lord, for when I have acted superior and judged those you have lovingly created. Help me to see the beauty and wonder in others and to love them the way You do."
Friday, March 21, 2008
God Examines Our Motives
DAY 19- Proverbs 21
Today I started my devotion time an hour later than most weekdays because my family is on Spring Break and didn't have to be anywhere. So I treated today like a weekend day and got up at 6:00 a.m., rather than 5:00. Turns out that was a mistake. As I tried to begin my study, there was too much commotion in the house- running water, TV noise, the trash truck arriving, etc. I don't think it was a very "quiet" time. Thank you, Lord, for teaching me today the value of making sure I get up early enough to ensure I am not distracted and can devote my attention to listening to You. I crave this time each morning and want to jealously guard it for just You and me to spend time together.
As I read Proverbs 21, I found several verses that I enjoyed, but none that jumped out at me or gave me an "Ah..Ha!" moment. But as I began to read the chapter for a third time, verse 2 convicted my heart. "All a man's ways seem right to him, but the Lord weighs the heart." The Message translation says, "We justify our actions by appearances; God examines our motives."
I know in my heart there are many times I do or say things because I am calculating what kind of response I'll get. Certainly my motives are not always pure. I want to learn to let God guide ALL my actions and begin trusting Him to take care of the results, rather than trying to manipulate the outcome myself.
Today I started my devotion time an hour later than most weekdays because my family is on Spring Break and didn't have to be anywhere. So I treated today like a weekend day and got up at 6:00 a.m., rather than 5:00. Turns out that was a mistake. As I tried to begin my study, there was too much commotion in the house- running water, TV noise, the trash truck arriving, etc. I don't think it was a very "quiet" time. Thank you, Lord, for teaching me today the value of making sure I get up early enough to ensure I am not distracted and can devote my attention to listening to You. I crave this time each morning and want to jealously guard it for just You and me to spend time together.
As I read Proverbs 21, I found several verses that I enjoyed, but none that jumped out at me or gave me an "Ah..Ha!" moment. But as I began to read the chapter for a third time, verse 2 convicted my heart. "All a man's ways seem right to him, but the Lord weighs the heart." The Message translation says, "We justify our actions by appearances; God examines our motives."
I know in my heart there are many times I do or say things because I am calculating what kind of response I'll get. Certainly my motives are not always pure. I want to learn to let God guide ALL my actions and begin trusting Him to take care of the results, rather than trying to manipulate the outcome myself.
Thursday, March 20, 2008
Do Not Love Sleep
DAY 18- Proverbs 20
It's ironic (translation: God's funny sense of timing) that today I awoke very tired despite having gotten a little extra sleep last night. As I was reading this chapter, struggling to keep focused (heck, to keep my eyes open!), I came to verse 13. "Do not love sleep or you will grow poor; stay awake and you will have food to spare." The Message translation says, "Don't be too fond of sleep; you'll end up in the poorhouse. Wake up and get up; then there'll be food on your table."
I almost laughed out loud. Today in particular I was allowing myself to feel down and questioning why I needed to get up so early to do this bible study. I wanted to go back to bed; I wanted one really good night of sleep. But I made a commitment to this 30 day challenge and I must remember how amazing it is to start each day felloshipping with the Lord.
"Sleep is Over-rated"... That's going to be my new motto! I'm going to say it to myself every night before going to bed and every morning when I pry my eyelids open. Heck, maybe I'll get T-shirts made up! The plain simple truth is this: God is blessing my time whith Him, blessing my family, my work, and my homelife. He's teaching me SO much about myself and how to experience His love and how to demonstrate His love. And I want it more each day as this challenge continues. So, I'm going to keep doing what I'm doing, even if I find myself yawning during the day... I'll just call them 'deep cleansing breaths.'
It's ironic (translation: God's funny sense of timing) that today I awoke very tired despite having gotten a little extra sleep last night. As I was reading this chapter, struggling to keep focused (heck, to keep my eyes open!), I came to verse 13. "Do not love sleep or you will grow poor; stay awake and you will have food to spare." The Message translation says, "Don't be too fond of sleep; you'll end up in the poorhouse. Wake up and get up; then there'll be food on your table."
I almost laughed out loud. Today in particular I was allowing myself to feel down and questioning why I needed to get up so early to do this bible study. I wanted to go back to bed; I wanted one really good night of sleep. But I made a commitment to this 30 day challenge and I must remember how amazing it is to start each day felloshipping with the Lord.
"Sleep is Over-rated"... That's going to be my new motto! I'm going to say it to myself every night before going to bed and every morning when I pry my eyelids open. Heck, maybe I'll get T-shirts made up! The plain simple truth is this: God is blessing my time whith Him, blessing my family, my work, and my homelife. He's teaching me SO much about myself and how to experience His love and how to demonstrate His love. And I want it more each day as this challenge continues. So, I'm going to keep doing what I'm doing, even if I find myself yawning during the day... I'll just call them 'deep cleansing breaths.'
Wednesday, March 19, 2008
Honesty is the Best Policy
DAY 17- Proverbs 19
Every day we are inundated with messages that condition us to believe we need to be successful - to be rich. We dream of making lots of money and the things we can buy. to some degree we all strive for success. Proverbs 19:22 says, "It's only human to want to make a buck, but it's better to be poor than a liar." (The Message)
I think that as we struggle for prosperity we might begin to compromise our integrity - or at least be tempted to do so. But verse 1 caution, "Better a poor man whose walk is blameless, than a fool whose lips are perverse." I would love to be rich, but if I had to choose, I'd rather be poor, yet honest. I think it's so easy to find the gray area between truth and lies, or to be tempted to 'bend the truth' slightly.
The Holy Spirit can help convict us of our sins. It is my prayer that I would recognize lies, or even 'slight variations of the truth', before they come out of my mouth.
Every day we are inundated with messages that condition us to believe we need to be successful - to be rich. We dream of making lots of money and the things we can buy. to some degree we all strive for success. Proverbs 19:22 says, "It's only human to want to make a buck, but it's better to be poor than a liar." (The Message)
I think that as we struggle for prosperity we might begin to compromise our integrity - or at least be tempted to do so. But verse 1 caution, "Better a poor man whose walk is blameless, than a fool whose lips are perverse." I would love to be rich, but if I had to choose, I'd rather be poor, yet honest. I think it's so easy to find the gray area between truth and lies, or to be tempted to 'bend the truth' slightly.
The Holy Spirit can help convict us of our sins. It is my prayer that I would recognize lies, or even 'slight variations of the truth', before they come out of my mouth.
Tuesday, March 18, 2008
Words Kill, Words Give Life
DAY 16- Proverbs 18
The Bible is full of verses warning about how evil our tongue can be and the harm that it can cause. As a Christian, things like gossip, slander and frivolous talk are harmful to my spiritual growth. And, they are detestable to God.
Such talk makes me a fool and this chapter cautions about the words of fools. "Fools care nothing for thoughtful discourse; all they do is run off at the mouth." -v2 "A fool's lips bring him strife, and his mouth invites a beating." -v6 "He who answers before listening- that is his folly and shame." -v13 "Words kill, words give life; they're either poison or fruit- you choose." -v21
I think it's very easy for me to get caught up talking and slip into mindless, meaningless talk or gossip. I often find that I want to be funny and amusing when talking to friends (it's my personality) and that can lead to crude talk. Other times I let my frustrations come out in the form of gossip or slander, or simple complaining. I need the Lord's help to turn my conversations towards praise and encouragement if I wish to uplift others. Probably most of all, I need to ask Him to help me keep my mouth shut more often, and listen more. Nobody ever seems to mind being around a good listener.
The Bible is full of verses warning about how evil our tongue can be and the harm that it can cause. As a Christian, things like gossip, slander and frivolous talk are harmful to my spiritual growth. And, they are detestable to God.
Such talk makes me a fool and this chapter cautions about the words of fools. "Fools care nothing for thoughtful discourse; all they do is run off at the mouth." -v2 "A fool's lips bring him strife, and his mouth invites a beating." -v6 "He who answers before listening- that is his folly and shame." -v13 "Words kill, words give life; they're either poison or fruit- you choose." -v21
I think it's very easy for me to get caught up talking and slip into mindless, meaningless talk or gossip. I often find that I want to be funny and amusing when talking to friends (it's my personality) and that can lead to crude talk. Other times I let my frustrations come out in the form of gossip or slander, or simple complaining. I need the Lord's help to turn my conversations towards praise and encouragement if I wish to uplift others. Probably most of all, I need to ask Him to help me keep my mouth shut more often, and listen more. Nobody ever seems to mind being around a good listener.
Monday, March 17, 2008
Even Quiet Dunces Are Thought To Be Wise
DAY 15- Proverbs 17
Half way to my goal! It's hard for me to comprehend that I've only been doing this challenge for 2 weeks. I feel like God is teaching me so much and changing me in many ways. I am so thankful to my friend, Tim, for coming up with this challenge and for letting God use him to motivate me.
Today's passage had several verses that I liked, though they were seemingly unrelated. Here are a couple that made me think: "Better to meet a grizzly robbed of her cubs then a fool hellbent on folly." v12 "Even dunces who keep quiet are thought to be wise; as long as they keep their mouths shut, they're smart." v28 (love that word... dunces!)
But the verse that I hung on to the most today was verse 27. "The one who knows much says little; an understanding person remains calm." This verse stung a little because those are traits that I know I need to have, but will seriously need to work on. My personality often causes me to talk more than I should and listen too little. I'm also an excitable person. With God's help, I know I can find a better balance and become a better listener and advisor.
Half way to my goal! It's hard for me to comprehend that I've only been doing this challenge for 2 weeks. I feel like God is teaching me so much and changing me in many ways. I am so thankful to my friend, Tim, for coming up with this challenge and for letting God use him to motivate me.
Today's passage had several verses that I liked, though they were seemingly unrelated. Here are a couple that made me think: "Better to meet a grizzly robbed of her cubs then a fool hellbent on folly." v12 "Even dunces who keep quiet are thought to be wise; as long as they keep their mouths shut, they're smart." v28 (love that word... dunces!)
But the verse that I hung on to the most today was verse 27. "The one who knows much says little; an understanding person remains calm." This verse stung a little because those are traits that I know I need to have, but will seriously need to work on. My personality often causes me to talk more than I should and listen too little. I'm also an excitable person. With God's help, I know I can find a better balance and become a better listener and advisor.
Sunday, March 16, 2008
Your Business is His Business
DAY 14- Proverbs 16
Today's passage makes many references to our plans for our lives and our careers, particularly how God should be involved in that. Verse 11 says, "God cares about honesty in the workplace; your business is His business." We are advised, "Put God in charge of your work, then what you've planned will take place." -verse 3
I have a hard time remembering to incorporate God into my workday. Sure, I pray for success at my job and for my own financial prosperity, but that's about it. I should be praying for my co-workers (even the one's I barely know); praying not just for the obvious... salvation, but for their health, relationships, burdens, and success. I should pray that upper management leads us in the right direction and has integrity in their business dealings. I should pray for our clients, and that all transactions and events will be blessed and carried out according to God's will.
If I can adopt this approach to work, I believe I will experience less stress and that it I will be pleasing God. This chapter gives some additional guidance about God's views on our careers and plans...
"In his heart a man plans his course, but the Lord determines his steps." -v9
"Get wisdom- it's worth more than money; choose insight over income every time." -v16
"It's better to live humbly among the poor than to live it up among the rich and famous." -v19 And lastly, "Make your motions and cast your votes, but God has the final say." -v33
Today's passage makes many references to our plans for our lives and our careers, particularly how God should be involved in that. Verse 11 says, "God cares about honesty in the workplace; your business is His business." We are advised, "Put God in charge of your work, then what you've planned will take place." -verse 3
I have a hard time remembering to incorporate God into my workday. Sure, I pray for success at my job and for my own financial prosperity, but that's about it. I should be praying for my co-workers (even the one's I barely know); praying not just for the obvious... salvation, but for their health, relationships, burdens, and success. I should pray that upper management leads us in the right direction and has integrity in their business dealings. I should pray for our clients, and that all transactions and events will be blessed and carried out according to God's will.
If I can adopt this approach to work, I believe I will experience less stress and that it I will be pleasing God. This chapter gives some additional guidance about God's views on our careers and plans...
"In his heart a man plans his course, but the Lord determines his steps." -v9
"Get wisdom- it's worth more than money; choose insight over income every time." -v16
"It's better to live humbly among the poor than to live it up among the rich and famous." -v19 And lastly, "Make your motions and cast your votes, but God has the final say." -v33
Saturday, March 15, 2008
Humility Before Honor
DAY 13- Proverbs 15
verse 33 "Fear-of-God is a school in skilled living- first you learn humility, then you can experience glory."
This 30 day challenge is opening my eyes to truths about God's love, plan and priorities for my life. It somehow has served as a big 'mirror', allowing me to see my flaws more clearly. It's not a pretty sight.
Change is not easy, and in fact can be quite painful. I have a low tolerance for pain, so I think I've wanted to avoid looking very closely at the areas of my llife that needed to change. But thank you, Lord Jesus, for showing me that becoming the man you want me to be is a wonderful journey- not to be feared. Don't get me wrong, this is going to be a very long journey through some un-scenic places. And I have only just begun the trip.
In fact, I'm probably still just packing my luggage! (Sorry, can't seem to let go of this traveling analogy.) I'm certain I have a lot of excess baggage (attitudes, vices, selfish desires) and am too worried about packing the right clothes (vanity, ego, pride ambition are all pressed and ready to go).
It's a good thing the Lord loves me so much and has endless mercy and patience for me. I want this journey to transform and I'm eager to change. As I seek His wisdom and His will for my life's journey, I'm learning to have much greater respect and dependance on God. Someday I will get to the place where I am honoring Him and He is allowing me to receive honor and all of the blessings He has in store for me, but for now I must start with allowing Him to teach me humility and self-sacrifice.
verse 33 "Fear-of-God is a school in skilled living- first you learn humility, then you can experience glory."
This 30 day challenge is opening my eyes to truths about God's love, plan and priorities for my life. It somehow has served as a big 'mirror', allowing me to see my flaws more clearly. It's not a pretty sight.
Change is not easy, and in fact can be quite painful. I have a low tolerance for pain, so I think I've wanted to avoid looking very closely at the areas of my llife that needed to change. But thank you, Lord Jesus, for showing me that becoming the man you want me to be is a wonderful journey- not to be feared. Don't get me wrong, this is going to be a very long journey through some un-scenic places. And I have only just begun the trip.
In fact, I'm probably still just packing my luggage! (Sorry, can't seem to let go of this traveling analogy.) I'm certain I have a lot of excess baggage (attitudes, vices, selfish desires) and am too worried about packing the right clothes (vanity, ego, pride ambition are all pressed and ready to go).
It's a good thing the Lord loves me so much and has endless mercy and patience for me. I want this journey to transform and I'm eager to change. As I seek His wisdom and His will for my life's journey, I'm learning to have much greater respect and dependance on God. Someday I will get to the place where I am honoring Him and He is allowing me to receive honor and all of the blessings He has in store for me, but for now I must start with allowing Him to teach me humility and self-sacrifice.
Friday, March 14, 2008
God Devotion Makes a Country Stong
DAY 12- Proverbs 14
As a Christian, it makes me very sad to see our nation turn it's back on the very faith which built us into such a great country. I don't believe it is the result of any one thing, but many factors have led to this erosion of faith. You can argue which factor you think is the cause, but the result is still the same. As a nation, we simply care less and less about God's plan and His wisdom, and we are more self absorbed and focused on status, wealth, and Britney Spears!
Proverbs 14:34 cautions us that "God-devotion makes a country strong; God avoidance leaves people weak." I worry that as our world becomes more industrialized, other countries are becoming more competitive in education, commerce, and military strength. Our country's greatness has relied merely on the fact that we were more advanced for some time. As that gap narrows, our greatness diminishes as well. Doesn't seem like a good time to have turned our backs on God! Even Christians can easily slip into complacency and be absorbed by our culture. (sorry for being on such a soapbox today)
I think we need to pray for our country. I'm going to begin by praying for a revival among Christians. If we become stronger and more wise, walking in God's will, we will become beacons that attract non-believers, and thus creating a ripple effect (I pray!). Otherwise, maybe all we'll be left with is summed up in verse 24. "The wise accumulate wisdom; fools get stupider by the day."
As a Christian, it makes me very sad to see our nation turn it's back on the very faith which built us into such a great country. I don't believe it is the result of any one thing, but many factors have led to this erosion of faith. You can argue which factor you think is the cause, but the result is still the same. As a nation, we simply care less and less about God's plan and His wisdom, and we are more self absorbed and focused on status, wealth, and Britney Spears!
Proverbs 14:34 cautions us that "God-devotion makes a country strong; God avoidance leaves people weak." I worry that as our world becomes more industrialized, other countries are becoming more competitive in education, commerce, and military strength. Our country's greatness has relied merely on the fact that we were more advanced for some time. As that gap narrows, our greatness diminishes as well. Doesn't seem like a good time to have turned our backs on God! Even Christians can easily slip into complacency and be absorbed by our culture. (sorry for being on such a soapbox today)
I think we need to pray for our country. I'm going to begin by praying for a revival among Christians. If we become stronger and more wise, walking in God's will, we will become beacons that attract non-believers, and thus creating a ripple effect (I pray!). Otherwise, maybe all we'll be left with is summed up in verse 24. "The wise accumulate wisdom; fools get stupider by the day."
Thursday, March 13, 2008
Walk with the Wise
DAY 13- Proverbs 13
Now that I am a little more than one-third of the way through this challenge, I'm going to reflect for a moment. I referred to this challenge as a journey to find wisdom. Glamorous sounding, but more simply put, I am trying to learn to be more wise and less stupid. This second week has actually been harder than the first. I've made fewer "new discoveries" and am wondering if I've really grown much this week.
This seems like a good time to remind myself that the ONLY real goal that I set for myself was to consistently get up one hour early every day for 30 days so I could be "available" for the Lord. How He wants to teach and change me is up to Him. So, I'm going to keep showing up each day.
Chapters like Proverbs 13 do in fact teach me how to become more wise. It contains 25 verses, or "morsels", of wisdomly goodness. Verse 20 says, "He who walks with the wise grows more wise, but a companion of fools suffers harm." Everyone knows that if you want to become a better tennis player, you should only play against players who are better than yourself. Guess this is a similar principle. If I hang out with people who are less wise than me, they are going to bring me down to their level. But if I choose to surround myself with people who are more wise than me, they are likely to bring me up (make me more wise).
Verse 14 sums it up nicely. "The teaching of the wise is a fountain of life, so no more drinking from death-tainted wells!" (The Message)
Now that I am a little more than one-third of the way through this challenge, I'm going to reflect for a moment. I referred to this challenge as a journey to find wisdom. Glamorous sounding, but more simply put, I am trying to learn to be more wise and less stupid. This second week has actually been harder than the first. I've made fewer "new discoveries" and am wondering if I've really grown much this week.
This seems like a good time to remind myself that the ONLY real goal that I set for myself was to consistently get up one hour early every day for 30 days so I could be "available" for the Lord. How He wants to teach and change me is up to Him. So, I'm going to keep showing up each day.
Chapters like Proverbs 13 do in fact teach me how to become more wise. It contains 25 verses, or "morsels", of wisdomly goodness. Verse 20 says, "He who walks with the wise grows more wise, but a companion of fools suffers harm." Everyone knows that if you want to become a better tennis player, you should only play against players who are better than yourself. Guess this is a similar principle. If I hang out with people who are less wise than me, they are going to bring me down to their level. But if I choose to surround myself with people who are more wise than me, they are likely to bring me up (make me more wise).
Verse 14 sums it up nicely. "The teaching of the wise is a fountain of life, so no more drinking from death-tainted wells!" (The Message)
Wednesday, March 12, 2008
Wise People Take Advice
DAY 10- Proverbs 12
This Proverb continues the contrast between righteousness and wickedness. In verse 15 it says, "Fools are headstrong and do what they like; wise people take advice." I think there are times we all need to humble ourselves and admit that we can learn somthing from someone else.
A couple other verses made me think about my own work ethic. I believe that, for the most part, I have a very good work ethic, but occasionally could use reminders such as these. "Well spoken words bring satisfaction; well done work has its own rewards." v14 "The diligent find freedom in their work; the lazy are oppressed by work." v24 I've been praying that God would help me find favor in the eyes of my employer and asking Him to help me become a Godly example in my office. I've also been praying for prosperity for my company. Now I feel I should also be praying for joy at work. I want to be a beacon in the office.
The last verse I liked most was v27, "A lazy life is an emply life, but 'early to rise' gets the job done." I never thought that getting up an hour early could affect my workday since I still arrive at the office at about the same time. But somehow my day is more focused, peaceful, organized, and purposeful. I arrive at work prepared and eager, and my days seem less stressful. God is truly blessing my time with Him in the mornings and also blessing the remainder of each day.
This Proverb continues the contrast between righteousness and wickedness. In verse 15 it says, "Fools are headstrong and do what they like; wise people take advice." I think there are times we all need to humble ourselves and admit that we can learn somthing from someone else.
A couple other verses made me think about my own work ethic. I believe that, for the most part, I have a very good work ethic, but occasionally could use reminders such as these. "Well spoken words bring satisfaction; well done work has its own rewards." v14 "The diligent find freedom in their work; the lazy are oppressed by work." v24 I've been praying that God would help me find favor in the eyes of my employer and asking Him to help me become a Godly example in my office. I've also been praying for prosperity for my company. Now I feel I should also be praying for joy at work. I want to be a beacon in the office.
The last verse I liked most was v27, "A lazy life is an emply life, but 'early to rise' gets the job done." I never thought that getting up an hour early could affect my workday since I still arrive at the office at about the same time. But somehow my day is more focused, peaceful, organized, and purposeful. I arrive at work prepared and eager, and my days seem less stressful. God is truly blessing my time with Him in the mornings and also blessing the remainder of each day.
Tuesday, March 11, 2008
A God Shaped Life
DAY 9- Proverbs 11
Beginning with today's passage, Proverbs provides a contrast between righteousness and wickedness. This will continue for the next 14 chapters, so it appears wi'll have a "theme" for the next two weeks.
There were a couple of verses that stood out to me today, but the main one was verse 28. It says, "Whoever trusts in his riches will fall, but the righteous will thrive like a green leaf." In the Message translation this reads, "A life devoted to things is a dead life, a stump; a God-shaped life is a flourishing tree." So often I find my focus in life has become the quest for material possessions (or, things). My interests, hobbies, and recreations are definitely centered on 'things' (movies, cars, computers, gadgets...). I think it's OK to have things and enjoy them, as long as things and the desire to accumulate things doesn't pre-occupy us.
Devotion to God and His plan will keep our focus correct and turn us into a flourishing tree. Instead of being caught up in my own pursuits, I like the idea of letting God shape my life (including my interests and recreations). I want Him to transform me into something strong and solid, a provider of shade and a place for the weary to seek comfort and rest, a shelter to others, and a bearer of fruit.
Beginning with today's passage, Proverbs provides a contrast between righteousness and wickedness. This will continue for the next 14 chapters, so it appears wi'll have a "theme" for the next two weeks.
There were a couple of verses that stood out to me today, but the main one was verse 28. It says, "Whoever trusts in his riches will fall, but the righteous will thrive like a green leaf." In the Message translation this reads, "A life devoted to things is a dead life, a stump; a God-shaped life is a flourishing tree." So often I find my focus in life has become the quest for material possessions (or, things). My interests, hobbies, and recreations are definitely centered on 'things' (movies, cars, computers, gadgets...). I think it's OK to have things and enjoy them, as long as things and the desire to accumulate things doesn't pre-occupy us.
Devotion to God and His plan will keep our focus correct and turn us into a flourishing tree. Instead of being caught up in my own pursuits, I like the idea of letting God shape my life (including my interests and recreations). I want Him to transform me into something strong and solid, a provider of shade and a place for the weary to seek comfort and rest, a shelter to others, and a bearer of fruit.
Monday, March 10, 2008
Wisdom from Solomon, or, Folly Leads to a Fall
DAY 8- Proverbs 10
Today begins the second week of my 30 day challenge. I didn't get much sleep last night and Daylight Savings Time began yesterday, so it's very dark out still. This morning was the hardest one yet. I remained groggy and had difficulty focusing. Still, I am determined to keep doing the one thing I committed to during this challenge- I will get up an hour early (5am M-F, and 6am on weekends) so I can fellowship with the Lord. I believe He will honor that commitment and teach me something new each day.
Proverbs 10 is a collection of wise sayings which contrast fear of God and a life of folly and sin. The first fourteen verses focus on how an honest life is immortal. v7 "A good and honest life is a blessed memorial; a wicked life leaves a rotten stench." The next seven verses explain that the road to life is a disciplined life. I liked verse 19... "The more talk, the less truth; the wise measure their words." That stings just a bit.
The last ten verses are captioned "Fear of God Expands Your Life." Verse 24 should make us sit up and take notice. It says, "The nightmares of the wicked come true (yikes!); but what the good people desire, they get." I know which I would prefer to be.
Today begins the second week of my 30 day challenge. I didn't get much sleep last night and Daylight Savings Time began yesterday, so it's very dark out still. This morning was the hardest one yet. I remained groggy and had difficulty focusing. Still, I am determined to keep doing the one thing I committed to during this challenge- I will get up an hour early (5am M-F, and 6am on weekends) so I can fellowship with the Lord. I believe He will honor that commitment and teach me something new each day.
Proverbs 10 is a collection of wise sayings which contrast fear of God and a life of folly and sin. The first fourteen verses focus on how an honest life is immortal. v7 "A good and honest life is a blessed memorial; a wicked life leaves a rotten stench." The next seven verses explain that the road to life is a disciplined life. I liked verse 19... "The more talk, the less truth; the wise measure their words." That stings just a bit.
The last ten verses are captioned "Fear of God Expands Your Life." Verse 24 should make us sit up and take notice. It says, "The nightmares of the wicked come true (yikes!); but what the good people desire, they get." I know which I would prefer to be.
Sunday, March 9, 2008
To Whom Are You Listening?
DAY 7- Proverbs 9
Our lives are filled with messages bombarding us almost every waking moment and from every angle. We get it from the TV, radio, bilboards magazines, movies, friends... even church. Some of these messages are edifying and help us grow. Many are simply 'folly', or may actually be detrimental to our spiritual development.
Rarely in the course of my day are there moments of calm and quiet-- time that I can clear my mind of distractions and think about God's word, praise Him, say a prayer, or pause to repent. I've become so accustomed to this furious pace of life that even when I find moments of peace, I add my own distractions to maintain the pace. When I have 5 minutes driving in the car alone, I either whip out my cellphone or turn on the radio. Rarely does it occur to me to enjoy the silence and spend a few minutes with the Lord.
So if every minute is filled with messages rallying for my attention, when do I stop to listen to Wisdom? Proverbs 9 says she (Wisdom) has prepared her house and a banquet, and is standing outside calling to anyone who will listen. She's inviting them to come into her home, to leave a simple-minded life behind, and to walk in the way of understanding and LIVE.
By contrast, the woman Folly also sits at her own door calling out and enticing anyone who will listen to join her inside for 'secret pleasures'. Those who choose to listen to Folly and follow her inside find only death waiting for them.
I need to be careful to whose message I listen.
Our lives are filled with messages bombarding us almost every waking moment and from every angle. We get it from the TV, radio, bilboards magazines, movies, friends... even church. Some of these messages are edifying and help us grow. Many are simply 'folly', or may actually be detrimental to our spiritual development.
Rarely in the course of my day are there moments of calm and quiet-- time that I can clear my mind of distractions and think about God's word, praise Him, say a prayer, or pause to repent. I've become so accustomed to this furious pace of life that even when I find moments of peace, I add my own distractions to maintain the pace. When I have 5 minutes driving in the car alone, I either whip out my cellphone or turn on the radio. Rarely does it occur to me to enjoy the silence and spend a few minutes with the Lord.
So if every minute is filled with messages rallying for my attention, when do I stop to listen to Wisdom? Proverbs 9 says she (Wisdom) has prepared her house and a banquet, and is standing outside calling to anyone who will listen. She's inviting them to come into her home, to leave a simple-minded life behind, and to walk in the way of understanding and LIVE.
By contrast, the woman Folly also sits at her own door calling out and enticing anyone who will listen to join her inside for 'secret pleasures'. Those who choose to listen to Folly and follow her inside find only death waiting for them.
I need to be careful to whose message I listen.
Saturday, March 8, 2008
Wisdom is Calling Out to Us - Are We Listening?
DAY 6- Proverbs 8
This passage is full of some very powerful truth! To sum it up, Lady Wisdom is calling out to us (spoken in first person tense). She is beckoning us to listen to her words and to follow her counsel. If we do so, we will live well; live a life at our best. That's the thing I'm most seeking! I want to live life at my best. I want my days to count for something; to make a difference for God's kingdom. I want to be the best husband, father, son, brother, friend, employee and neighbor that God can enable me to be. If we choose God's knowledge and life discipline over wealth and career and material things, we will find that wisdom is far more valuable and satisfying than even the greatest of those things.
If we seek wisdom, we are promised that we will find it. And with it will come those other things we desire: wealth, honor, and a good reputation. The benefits will be even greater than a huge salary or the best bonus you can imagine!
God created wisdom first before he created the earth, oceans, the sky, etc. Wisdom was standing right next to God from the beginning, making sure everything in creation fit. I believe this clearly tells us that widsom is of the highest importance to God, and therefore it should be of the utmost importance to us.
Embrace God's knowledge and we will be blessed. Wake up each morning and prepare for the day by seeking wisdom and we will find real life and enjoy God's good pleasure.
This passage is full of some very powerful truth! To sum it up, Lady Wisdom is calling out to us (spoken in first person tense). She is beckoning us to listen to her words and to follow her counsel. If we do so, we will live well; live a life at our best. That's the thing I'm most seeking! I want to live life at my best. I want my days to count for something; to make a difference for God's kingdom. I want to be the best husband, father, son, brother, friend, employee and neighbor that God can enable me to be. If we choose God's knowledge and life discipline over wealth and career and material things, we will find that wisdom is far more valuable and satisfying than even the greatest of those things.
If we seek wisdom, we are promised that we will find it. And with it will come those other things we desire: wealth, honor, and a good reputation. The benefits will be even greater than a huge salary or the best bonus you can imagine!
God created wisdom first before he created the earth, oceans, the sky, etc. Wisdom was standing right next to God from the beginning, making sure everything in creation fit. I believe this clearly tells us that widsom is of the highest importance to God, and therefore it should be of the utmost importance to us.
Embrace God's knowledge and we will be blessed. Wake up each morning and prepare for the day by seeking wisdom and we will find real life and enjoy God's good pleasure.
Friday, March 7, 2008
Sin Will Lure You In
DAY 5- Proverbs 7
Though it's only my first week of this 30 day challenge, today marks the end of the first 'work' week. I was very worried that I'd be so tired I wouldn't be able to function, but getting up this early has proved to be a great blessing. I'm loving my time with the Lord each morning. It's honestly the best way to start a day! I've loved waking my children up each morning and seeing their joy grow each day as the find they like having their Dad up ready to spend some time with them before school. They are really enjoying the fruit shakes and breakfast assistance I've been giving them. I'm loving that time together, without the old hectic dash to get out the door (half prepared and half fed). Now our time is more relaxed and we are enjoying time as a family before our schedules pull us different directions. I know it's still very early in the challenge, but God has already opened my eyes to some tiny, but powerful, blessings he has in store for us.
Now, here's what I learned this morning: If sin was unattractive, foul smelling and creepy, it would be much easier to resist. But most of the time sin lures us in with its sweet, smooth charms, its beauty (or illusion of it), and the pleasures it promises.
Proverbs 7 begins by warning us to keep wisdom and understanding close to our hearts. If we store God's commands and teachings within us, and value them as much as eyesight, and study them frequently, we will enjoy a good life. If, like the young man in the Proverb who lacked judgement, we walk towards temptation, then she will surely lure us into her clutches. We will go willingly without even realizing it will cost us our life.
Though it's only my first week of this 30 day challenge, today marks the end of the first 'work' week. I was very worried that I'd be so tired I wouldn't be able to function, but getting up this early has proved to be a great blessing. I'm loving my time with the Lord each morning. It's honestly the best way to start a day! I've loved waking my children up each morning and seeing their joy grow each day as the find they like having their Dad up ready to spend some time with them before school. They are really enjoying the fruit shakes and breakfast assistance I've been giving them. I'm loving that time together, without the old hectic dash to get out the door (half prepared and half fed). Now our time is more relaxed and we are enjoying time as a family before our schedules pull us different directions. I know it's still very early in the challenge, but God has already opened my eyes to some tiny, but powerful, blessings he has in store for us.
Now, here's what I learned this morning: If sin was unattractive, foul smelling and creepy, it would be much easier to resist. But most of the time sin lures us in with its sweet, smooth charms, its beauty (or illusion of it), and the pleasures it promises.
Proverbs 7 begins by warning us to keep wisdom and understanding close to our hearts. If we store God's commands and teachings within us, and value them as much as eyesight, and study them frequently, we will enjoy a good life. If, like the young man in the Proverb who lacked judgement, we walk towards temptation, then she will surely lure us into her clutches. We will go willingly without even realizing it will cost us our life.
Thursday, March 6, 2008
Listen to your Parents!
DAY 4- Proverbs 6
Today's passage was Proverbs 6. The advice our parents have given us should be heeded- it will guide us our entire life. There was a time when I was a bit younger I would have hated to admit that was right... especially to my parents. But as I grew older I realized that God was guiding me through their admonitions and council. As I have grown older and now have children of my own, their wisdom has become my wisdom. Have you ever heard yourself saying something to your children that was the exact annoying phrase your own parents used to say to you? Makes me chuckle just to think about it.
Chapter 6 contains other good advice. It cautions us against going into debt or a deal (think "alliance" all you Survivor watchers) with a neighbor. When we become indebted to another, that person has a hold over us.
The lazy man, or sluggard (love that word), enjoys doing less and less work. Over time, it has become his way of life and a habit he may not break. This will lead to a life of poverty. So, get up off that couch and go play with your children or fix that squeaky door! :)
Riffraff and scoundrels are people who are two faced, they are always up to no good, and their perverse minds are always scheming up trouble. The Bible says that they will receive complete, swift disaster and will be completely ruined. Cool... I like justice!
Lastly, here is a list of the SEVEN THINGS GOD HATES:
Which one of us can read that list and not feel a little tinge of guilt because we know we have been guilty of a least one or more of those things at some time in our life? I'm so thankful that we have a Lord of mercy who will forgive us when we repent.
Today's passage was Proverbs 6. The advice our parents have given us should be heeded- it will guide us our entire life. There was a time when I was a bit younger I would have hated to admit that was right... especially to my parents. But as I grew older I realized that God was guiding me through their admonitions and council. As I have grown older and now have children of my own, their wisdom has become my wisdom. Have you ever heard yourself saying something to your children that was the exact annoying phrase your own parents used to say to you? Makes me chuckle just to think about it.
Chapter 6 contains other good advice. It cautions us against going into debt or a deal (think "alliance" all you Survivor watchers) with a neighbor. When we become indebted to another, that person has a hold over us.
The lazy man, or sluggard (love that word), enjoys doing less and less work. Over time, it has become his way of life and a habit he may not break. This will lead to a life of poverty. So, get up off that couch and go play with your children or fix that squeaky door! :)
Riffraff and scoundrels are people who are two faced, they are always up to no good, and their perverse minds are always scheming up trouble. The Bible says that they will receive complete, swift disaster and will be completely ruined. Cool... I like justice!
Lastly, here is a list of the SEVEN THINGS GOD HATES:
- Eyes that are arrogant
- A tongue that lies
- Hands that murder the innocent
- A heart that cooks up evil schemes
- Feet that rush towards evil and sin
- A mouth that lies to influence others
- A man that stirs up touble amongst his family or brethren
Which one of us can read that list and not feel a little tinge of guilt because we know we have been guilty of a least one or more of those things at some time in our life? I'm so thankful that we have a Lord of mercy who will forgive us when we repent.
Wednesday, March 5, 2008
Impurity Will Destroy You
DAY 3- Proverbs 5
Today's passage, Proverbs 5, has one very clear message: Immorality will lead to one's decimation. Giving in to our lusts will lead us down a crooked path (though we may not even realize it). We will be snared by evil deeds, tied down, and we will die for lack of discipline. I think this is a warning that giving in to immorality starts a pattern of unhealthy life choices that errode our health and negate our wisdom. It corrupts our character and causes us to be egocentric.
God cautions us that if we choose adultery we will give away our best years. Strangers will take our wealth and all our hard work will make another man wealthy, instead of us!
God's plan is for us to rejoice in the wife of our youth. We should delight in her body and always be captivated by her love. Wow... that's powerful. Instead of a life of guilt, shame, dishonesty, and risk, we can enjoy a lifetime of intimacy, honesty, purity, closeness, support, gentleness, and playfulness.
Given such contrast, why do so many men choose the path to destruction?
Today's passage, Proverbs 5, has one very clear message: Immorality will lead to one's decimation. Giving in to our lusts will lead us down a crooked path (though we may not even realize it). We will be snared by evil deeds, tied down, and we will die for lack of discipline. I think this is a warning that giving in to immorality starts a pattern of unhealthy life choices that errode our health and negate our wisdom. It corrupts our character and causes us to be egocentric.
God cautions us that if we choose adultery we will give away our best years. Strangers will take our wealth and all our hard work will make another man wealthy, instead of us!
God's plan is for us to rejoice in the wife of our youth. We should delight in her body and always be captivated by her love. Wow... that's powerful. Instead of a life of guilt, shame, dishonesty, and risk, we can enjoy a lifetime of intimacy, honesty, purity, closeness, support, gentleness, and playfulness.
Given such contrast, why do so many men choose the path to destruction?
Tuesday, March 4, 2008
My Father's Advice
DAY 2- Proverbs 4
I need to do a better job of listening to my Father's instructions so I can gain understanding, wisdom and life. It's the wisdom that seems to elude me most, yet it's the thing I most desire (ironic, huh?). If I had to take a cold, hard inventory of my life, I'd say that I was fairly lacking in the wisdom department. Sure, I've acquired some knowledge, but not enough wisdom.
Today in Proverbs 4, verses 6-9 tell me that wisdom will protect me. From myself? From others? From the world? I think from all of those and more. I should forsake all other goals and ambitions in order to pursue understanding. This in turn will bring me honor and grace.
Wisdom will help me walk a straight course and keep me from stumbling. That would be a nice change! It will help me avoid the crooked path of the wicked.
Verses 24-27 remind me that I need to guard my heart from corruption, evil, impurity, etc. Too many times I allow myself to get caught up in, or even initiate, gossip, slander, or unclean humor. Forgive me, Father, and help me to seek Your wisdom and Your path.
I need to do a better job of listening to my Father's instructions so I can gain understanding, wisdom and life. It's the wisdom that seems to elude me most, yet it's the thing I most desire (ironic, huh?). If I had to take a cold, hard inventory of my life, I'd say that I was fairly lacking in the wisdom department. Sure, I've acquired some knowledge, but not enough wisdom.
Today in Proverbs 4, verses 6-9 tell me that wisdom will protect me. From myself? From others? From the world? I think from all of those and more. I should forsake all other goals and ambitions in order to pursue understanding. This in turn will bring me honor and grace.
Wisdom will help me walk a straight course and keep me from stumbling. That would be a nice change! It will help me avoid the crooked path of the wicked.
Verses 24-27 remind me that I need to guard my heart from corruption, evil, impurity, etc. Too many times I allow myself to get caught up in, or even initiate, gossip, slander, or unclean humor. Forgive me, Father, and help me to seek Your wisdom and Your path.
Monday, March 3, 2008
Seeking Wisdom
DAY 1- Proverbs 3
Today is the first official day of my 30 day experiment. I hate that word... experiment, because it makes me think of something I'm going to "try" for a while. Rather, I want this to become a new part of my daily existence, not a short term project. I need this time to spend with the Lord so that together we can make positive changes to my life... so I can find wisdom for living.
This morning the alarm went off at 5:00 a.m. and I was surprised at how quickly I got out of bed. But I was determined not to 'blow it' on the very first day by falling back to sleep. Getting showered and dressed first then sitting down at the dining room table seemed to work best for me. I am just so groggy in the morning.
Since I'm not sure how to best utilize this time, here's what I did today. I began by reading Proverbs 3. I read it twice to see what called out to me the most. Wow... there are a lot of wise statements in this chapter. Many of them I've heard my whole life, but didn't realize they were all from this chapter.
The very first verse reminds us to keep God's teachings/commands in our hearts. When was the last time I memorized any scripture? When I was a kid in Sunday School? No, maybe in college. Anyway, it's been a long time and I don't know how many I still know. But that needs to change. I think the more I have God's words in my heart and on my lips, the closer I will walk with Him and the less I will stray when tempted.
Proverbs 3:5 was one of my mother's favorite verses. She used to write it in letters to me in college, or sign it on the bottom of birthday cards. It tells us to trust in the Lord with all of our heart and not to rely on our own understanding. Also to acknowledge God in every aspect and activity of our lives, then He will make our path straight. I think that's all I really am searching for right now... a straight path that I know the Lord wants me to walk down. He doesn't say it won't be bumpy or challenging (ie- uphill?), but it will be absolute. I will know for certain that I'm walking on His path, not straying aimlessly into dangerous lands. That is the comfort I am seeking. I may not see where the path is going, but I want the assurance of knowing that God has prepared this path for me and I simply need to keep moving forward. What peace that will bring! I'm finally realizing that I'm a terrible navigator, and yet I've avoided God's path for my life for so many years. No wonder I've seemed to get nowhere. Starting today, I need to rely on God's directions and pray earnestly that I will stay on His path.
Much of the rest of Proverbs 3 talks about seeking wisdom and understanding, and the uncomparable benefits those bring. I think the previous paragraph pretty much demonstrated how little wisdom I currently possess. I am realizing just how stupid, arrogant, and selfish I have been for too long. I have denied the plans, blessings, and guidance that God has had for me for too many years and have tried to 'do it all myself'. Clearly that's not been working too well.
So, beginning today, I am searching for wisdom. Not the world's wisdom, but God's pure wisdom as I attempt to put my life on the right path. I know God has a plan for me (and a much better roadmap). Today I will attempt to stay on His path, trusting Him with my whole heart and leaning not on my own understanding.
Today is the first official day of my 30 day experiment. I hate that word... experiment, because it makes me think of something I'm going to "try" for a while. Rather, I want this to become a new part of my daily existence, not a short term project. I need this time to spend with the Lord so that together we can make positive changes to my life... so I can find wisdom for living.
This morning the alarm went off at 5:00 a.m. and I was surprised at how quickly I got out of bed. But I was determined not to 'blow it' on the very first day by falling back to sleep. Getting showered and dressed first then sitting down at the dining room table seemed to work best for me. I am just so groggy in the morning.
Since I'm not sure how to best utilize this time, here's what I did today. I began by reading Proverbs 3. I read it twice to see what called out to me the most. Wow... there are a lot of wise statements in this chapter. Many of them I've heard my whole life, but didn't realize they were all from this chapter.
The very first verse reminds us to keep God's teachings/commands in our hearts. When was the last time I memorized any scripture? When I was a kid in Sunday School? No, maybe in college. Anyway, it's been a long time and I don't know how many I still know. But that needs to change. I think the more I have God's words in my heart and on my lips, the closer I will walk with Him and the less I will stray when tempted.
Proverbs 3:5 was one of my mother's favorite verses. She used to write it in letters to me in college, or sign it on the bottom of birthday cards. It tells us to trust in the Lord with all of our heart and not to rely on our own understanding. Also to acknowledge God in every aspect and activity of our lives, then He will make our path straight. I think that's all I really am searching for right now... a straight path that I know the Lord wants me to walk down. He doesn't say it won't be bumpy or challenging (ie- uphill?), but it will be absolute. I will know for certain that I'm walking on His path, not straying aimlessly into dangerous lands. That is the comfort I am seeking. I may not see where the path is going, but I want the assurance of knowing that God has prepared this path for me and I simply need to keep moving forward. What peace that will bring! I'm finally realizing that I'm a terrible navigator, and yet I've avoided God's path for my life for so many years. No wonder I've seemed to get nowhere. Starting today, I need to rely on God's directions and pray earnestly that I will stay on His path.
Much of the rest of Proverbs 3 talks about seeking wisdom and understanding, and the uncomparable benefits those bring. I think the previous paragraph pretty much demonstrated how little wisdom I currently possess. I am realizing just how stupid, arrogant, and selfish I have been for too long. I have denied the plans, blessings, and guidance that God has had for me for too many years and have tried to 'do it all myself'. Clearly that's not been working too well.
So, beginning today, I am searching for wisdom. Not the world's wisdom, but God's pure wisdom as I attempt to put my life on the right path. I know God has a plan for me (and a much better roadmap). Today I will attempt to stay on His path, trusting Him with my whole heart and leaning not on my own understanding.
Sunday, March 2, 2008
The Guantlet Has Been Thrown Down!
This morning in our Sunday School class, our teacher, Tim, told us of his personal journey (or, experiment) to change his life by getting up early each morning. By changing this one little detail of his routine, he created time for personal growth by spending time reading the Bible, praying, planning his day, and spending more quality time with his family.
Tim blogged his 30 day experiment (now on day 62!) and shared some of the amazing results with us. More importantly, Tim CHALLENGED US to do our own 30 day experiment. Getting up early is not in my genetic makeup. I am a night owl. I hate mornings and have to drag myself out of bed (after several snooze button presses) and stumble through my morning shower, etc. How on earth can a human read the Bible or pray so early in the morning?
But I am determined to seek God and His will for my life, to know His commandments, to memorize scripture, and to draw into a closer relationship with my Savior. I have put this off for too long, trying to find a comfortable way to squeeze God into my daily routine. It simply doesn't work consistently. I've always been jealous of friends who spring out of bed when the alarm goes off and are able to have a leisurely morning, including a 'quiet time'. God must have blessed them with the correct genetic wiring for such feats of alertness.
For this experiment to work for me, God is going to have to pull off a miracle along par with the burning bush or walking on water. So, rather than establish huge personal goals that will only lead to more failure, I'm only going to set one goal (thank you Tim for this wise advice).
MY GOAL: For the next 30 days, I'm going to get up at 5:00 a.m. (ouch, that even hurt just to type it!).
I'll let you know how this works, or actually, how God works in my new routine. I don't know what I'm going to learn or how this will affect me. I am simply throwing myself out of my comfort zone and asking God to be my parachute. I pray that He will honor my commitment and allow me to share some very special time with Him.
Tim blogged his 30 day experiment (now on day 62!) and shared some of the amazing results with us. More importantly, Tim CHALLENGED US to do our own 30 day experiment. Getting up early is not in my genetic makeup. I am a night owl. I hate mornings and have to drag myself out of bed (after several snooze button presses) and stumble through my morning shower, etc. How on earth can a human read the Bible or pray so early in the morning?
But I am determined to seek God and His will for my life, to know His commandments, to memorize scripture, and to draw into a closer relationship with my Savior. I have put this off for too long, trying to find a comfortable way to squeeze God into my daily routine. It simply doesn't work consistently. I've always been jealous of friends who spring out of bed when the alarm goes off and are able to have a leisurely morning, including a 'quiet time'. God must have blessed them with the correct genetic wiring for such feats of alertness.
For this experiment to work for me, God is going to have to pull off a miracle along par with the burning bush or walking on water. So, rather than establish huge personal goals that will only lead to more failure, I'm only going to set one goal (thank you Tim for this wise advice).
MY GOAL: For the next 30 days, I'm going to get up at 5:00 a.m. (ouch, that even hurt just to type it!).
I'll let you know how this works, or actually, how God works in my new routine. I don't know what I'm going to learn or how this will affect me. I am simply throwing myself out of my comfort zone and asking God to be my parachute. I pray that He will honor my commitment and allow me to share some very special time with Him.
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